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Still Nothing

Monday, December 21st, 2009

Friday night, Richmond was buried under roughly 20 inches of snow and promptly shut down for the rest of the weekend. We found ourselves trapped at the hotel for the weekend, which has put us behind… majorly behind.

We’re running out of money fast and have no jobs to show for it. We’re trying to stay positive, but it’s difficult. It’s scary!

So far, no one wants to help us. It’s either homeless shelter or find a job before any agency will.

I’m beginning to think I should have chosen Texas. Unfortunately, I know even less about Texas than I do about Virginia. At the same time, I’ve had the opportunity to apply to so many jobs and have handed out so many resumes, the laws of the universe dictate that as soon as I leave, I’ll get a call. There’s not much in Michigan to return to, but one of our old neighbors said we could live in their basement if necessary.

Either way, we’re going to have to decide within the next day or so: return to Michigan, stay put, or try another region.

Computer, why must you trouble me right now?

Monday, December 14th, 2009

First, the silver thermal compound decided to go brittle on me and now I think the video card is dying. I turned the computer back on today after looking for jobs and now the colors are weird. Really eye-searing and I’m missing options in my display settings. Working on updating the display drivers right now, so crossing my fingers.

As soon as I can afford it, I think it’s time for a cheap, no-frills laptop. Just so I have other options than hauling my rig around.

We’re having our share of pity-parties. But that being said, I had quite a few excited managers when I mentioned I was a computer science major. Sadly, I don’t have a printer and the hotel only has a shared computer with so much spyware I’m amazed it can function. The fact that it can’t find the printer doesn’t surprise me.

So going to have to find another place to print out a resume and all the different applications I’d like to fill out.

In Richmond

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

Got into Richmond Friday morning and promptly got horribly lost. Drivers in Richmond are nuts! I swear!

Mom made the executive decision to stop at the Econo Lodge by the Arthur Ashe stadium. Big mistake. Welcome to Dive #2. Graffiti on the walls, lots of broken things in the room, the door would barely close, and a stench that made us sick for the rest of the night. We made it 2 hours before asthma and allergies drove us from the place and to a much much more expensive hotel across town.

As we’re racing to figure out where to go before we fled the room, I decided to fire up my computer to find something. It turns on and right back off. Turned it back on, it gets to my desktop, and shuts back down. Turned it back on and it immediately shut right back down. Finally, the computer made a long string of beeps and gave me a non-helpful message saying the CPU was out of temperature range.

So if I wasn’t already wheezing and gasping like a fish out of water, now I’m bawling and my beloved computer is out of commission.

Mom finally located the Comfort Inn Conference Center in Richmond and yes, they’d take the girls. So, we threw our stuff back in the car and got lost all over again. We finally found it and settled in for the night.

We called our cousins to report in and Dave did a little digging for us. He found an online coupon for the Quality Inn. They not only accepted the online coupon, but beat the price.

Spent most of Saturday with our cousins, Dave and Jane, and got a small tour of area near the hotel after dinner. Cross your fingers, we’re not getting as lost as we were before. We actually located a Radio Shack and a Kroger all on our own. The clerk at Radio Shack didn’t give me a deer-in-headlights look when I asked for Thermal Compound which totally amazed me; and, even more amazing, they had canned air and didn’t card me for it either!

Got the computer back up and running. My guess was either too much dust, the thermal compound had dried out and become brittle, or the heat sink had died on me. I decided to try the two cheapest solutions first. I cleaned it real good, scraped the old thermal compound off the processor and heat sink, and put fresh down. Good as new. ^_^

It’s in the 40s here today and raining, supposed to be in the 60s and sunny by Tuesday. Michigan, eat your heart out! (It was amusing running around in a tee and my puffy vest yesterday. Yes, stare in wonder at the Northern girl! “Whadaya mean, it’s cold!?”)

Luna, once again, seems to have forgotten her training. We think just too many new things or she’s reading our mood or something. She’s decided she’s got a burning case of separation anxiety. She’s also decided she loves riding elevators. While she’s supposed to be okay in all situations, I suspect I’ve been conned when she was asking to go potty but wanting back on the elevator right after we got off. Goofy dog! Echo and Kaze seem to be fine, aside from the fact they’re cuddling with each other, which they have never been prone to do.

Tomorrow I go job hunting and we see if Richmond or Henrico County DHS will be able to help us. Our cousins can offer emotional support, but they already have a house-full of people and pets. We’re running out of money fast. I want to make this work and I’m confident I can find a job…. but we’re beginning to question our sanity. Hell, we even contemplated seeing if Sheba could help us and continuing south to Florida. We also have thought about going back to Michigan. We’re running out of time on the rental car and aren’t sure we can afford to keep it another week.

I’m not sure what to do. Please, pray for us.

MapQuest: Why did you do that?

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

MapQuest, why on earth did you have us drive down that country road through West Virginia? That wasted a good couple hours driving at only 35 mph where you could have had us stay on a highway. Talk about brain-melting! Even Ohio’s flatness wasn’t that bad.

Got an early start this morning and made it through the mountains. You should have seen mom geek out over the Allegheny Tunnel! OMG, she thought that was coolest thing ever! ^_^

After we got through the tunnel we started hitting bands of blowing snow, but the views of the mountains were still fantastic. I’m sure the truckers were getting annoyed with us since we kept slowing as something really frigging cool caught our attention. (Mom: “Look! The rock strata is almost vertical!”)

That slow trip through West Virginia cost us valuable traveling time, which prompted us to stop in Warrenton, VA in a Howard Johnson hotel for the night.

The wi-fi is free and the fastest I’ve found so far. Not sure what I’m going to do with it, though. Right now, a hot shower and bed sound really great. The roads through West Virginia gave me much way too much time to think and I found myself feeling really afraid and depressed again.

I thought too much about Poppa and his decision he tried forcing on us. At one point, the cats started crying, but all it took was reaching into their carriers and petting them for a moment to quiet them down. Thunderous purrs for a bit and they went back to sleep. I couldn’t help but start crying.

We’ll reach Richmond tomorrow and hopefully will finally be able to meet our cousins who live there.

But before we get there, we’ll have to see how many more times we’ll get lost.

On The Road

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Finally found a wi-fi hotspot… $8 to get it, but I’m online. We’re currently chilling in the Red Roof Inn in Cranberry Township, PA. Could have had it last night in Ann Arbor, MI but kind of balked at the price.

The connection is a little wonky, we’ve been fighting wind and driving rain all the way here. I’m hoping the weather improves tomorrow so we can make better time.

Monday night, in a nutshell, sucked. If anyone reading this visits Grand Rapids, MI… DO NOT stay at the Motel 6 on 3 mile road. Our room reeked. I mean, it smelled SO bad! It was so awful, I went online and looked up what meth and other drugs smell like. At 3am, had a drunk start yelling and at 5am had two guys walked by our room yelling at each other the whole way. As soon as dawn broke, we were out of there.

We made it as far as Ann Arbor before our lack of sleep caught up with us and we were forced to find a motel. Today, we covered all of Ohio and got as far as Cranberry Township, PA before we decided to call it a night.

Luna and the kitties have been fantastic. Only problem is tonight Luna seems to have forgotten her training and been barking way too much. Hopefully it’s just a symptom of how long she’s been cooped up today.

Sheba is blowing my mind. Second night in a row, she’s called our cell phone all worried and wanting to know if we got in okay. To top it off… she said she was proud of us for taking this chance. She said we were brave. Who the heck is this woman and what has she done with my Grandmother?? Mine isn’t this nice.

Really wishing I had a camera. Took the wrong exit on Tuesday and ended up lost in Lansing, MI. Found a sign proclaiming “Warning! Speed humps ahead.” That amused me so stupid much. Plus, after the super flatness of Ohio, we started getting into some amazing landscapes and rock formations.

We were so geeking out over the lavish service plazas in Ohio. In case you’ve never been to one, it’s basically a tricked out rest stop. It has food courts, gas stations, massive bathrooms, shops, wi-fi hotspots, and tons of travel information. They’re literally a small mall. The condition of the roads once we hit the toll roads impressed us too. We’re used to Michigan’s worn and battered roads! Ohio’s and — so far — Pennsylvania’s roads were amazingly clean and smooth.

Jumping Hoops

Monday, December 7th, 2009

So annoying trying to find internet access. Tried one library, but I have to have a library card. Tried another, but it refused to connect to my e-mail server.

So, check the ads in the local paper and discover Walmart has a ridiculously cheap USB Wi-Fi Adapter. So we picked it up and now I can use my own computer again off the hotel’s complimentary hotspot.

Anyway, to sum what’s going on up: Delays, delays, delays. Oh, and did I mention delays?

Delay #1: Snow Thursday Night / Friday. Lots of it. Craig and I made who knows how many trips using his friend’s truck to the storage unit. I’m shocked that neither of us has any cold damage to our hands or feet.

Delay #2: Nightfall. Craig and I worked hard all day on Friday until we couldn’t see anymore. So, we finally called it a night and we picked it up bright and very early on Saturday. After spending all day in the cold, we all head off to go relax someplace warm.

Delay #3: Landlord on Sunday. We winterized the trailer as best we can and call the landlord to let him know we were leaving. What are we going to do about X, Y, and Z. Can’t really do anything on Sunday, can’t call the necessary powers to find out what’s going on. So night 2 in the hotel.

Delay #3: Red Tape. We called everyone we needed to call, but the message is basically the same. “Let me work on this and get back to you tomorrow.”

So, back in a hotel for the third night in a row. *grumble* I was only counting on 4 hotels on the entire trip down, not before we can even leave town! Plus, we have another winter storm coming in Tuesday night. Really hoping we can get out of here before it arrives.

Anyway, my whining aside I have never been so proud of Luna, Echo, and Kaze. Somehow they’re all very good travelers and they’ve been taking the hotels in stride.

Bit of a strange note: We keep running into people who were good friends of ours, but we haven’t seen or spoken to in years. Nothing strange about any of the stores we’ve visited or anything. Its like these people are being put in our path so we can say goodbye. It’s crazy.

Something amusing… caught Aunt Karla in a lie. Several months ago, she attacked us because her dog had died. Funny thing. The dog is very much alive. No major newsflash there, just something my mom realized only in retrospect after my aunt bit her head off.

Second Thoughts the Other Way

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

Okay, now we have second thoughts the other way. Mom called one of the affordable apartments near us and while they’d be cool with the girls, they require all tenants to be making at least $1700 a month. Totally lets us out.

Mom called our DHS case worker to inquire about Section 8 Housing, course, the state screwed up DHS so it’ll probably be… oh, friday… before she gets back with us.

Which took us back the other way, back towards leaving again. Either way, we’re going to be homeless for a bit.

I found a few entry level web development jobs I could do, but will they take me is the question. I’m completely clueless about cover letters in the first place, let along crafting one to convince people to consider me when I’m not even there yet.

One is, awesomely enough, with the World Wildlife Federation and the other is for a yacht company. I can do everything both ask, though I’ve only dabbled with ASP. (I can make it say “Hello World” and some other basic newbie stuff.)

*eyes Echo snoozing in the armchair* I don’t think so! Mom did her best dragon impression ever last night, remember? You are sleeping tonight!

Second Thoughts

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

We’re starting to have second thoughts about going down to Richmond. Granted, we got almost no sleep last night, so this might just be exhaustion talking.

Trying to find safe, affordable, pet-friendly hotels is proving difficult and we’re realizing this isn’t going to save us as much money as we thought.

This morning, Mom actually suggested that we see if we can rent a room from Neil and his brothers. No offense Mom, but last time Neil and his brothers came over, I found them downright creepy. I know I used to be good friends with them, but that was 12 years ago.

I suggested that we just move outright, get me and the girls down there and then immediately return for our things. At this point, I could be convinced to part with everything but the essentials.

Truth be told, we’re scared. Very scared.

I started looking at Section 8 housing in the Grand Rapids, MI area, but a lot of them only allow dogs up to 25 – 35 lbs.

I know the “hows” always present themselves, but I’m starting to feel like I’m caught between a rock and a hard place. I just wish someone would tell me what to do.

Paperless Policy?

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

Trying to get the car rented is proving to be annoying. The car rental place wants two proofs that we are who we say we are. Apparently mom’s drivers license and card aren’t enough.

There’s just one, teeny problem… After our mail carrier lost our mail for the 3rd time, we moved as many services, bills, and other mailings to paperless as we could. Coincidentally, that leaves just the Charter Cable bill as the last one that’s physically mailed to us.

They finally agreed that our mortgage and the cable bill would work, but they wouldn’t take any of the printed online statements as “proofs.”

I completely understand them needing to verify our identities, but this is really kind of annoying. I would have thought with the sheer number of businesses and organizations that now offer paperless as an option, they’d have policies in place to accommodate that.

After a long conversation, Miro (our Cockatiel) is going to a new home. We hated to have to decide this. He’s 16 years old (they only live 15 – 20) and doesn’t take to changes quite well. Making him stay in his very tiny traveling cage indefinitely just seems very cruel, especially at his advanced age.

Mom started out with an appointment to take him to the local Humane Society… but I decided that wasn’t happening. While I support the work of the Humane Society as a whole, our local office has a reputation that I find disturbing. I found the number to the local Avicultural Society and they put me in touch with the officer in charge of their pet-bird rescue. So they’re coming over in an hour to pick him up.

Hair Style: Whatcha think?

Saturday, November 28th, 2009

So, among all my tasks is to make myself look relatively nice. Tempted to see if mom would stop by the mall so I can see how much I have left on the Express card Catty-Karla gave me for Christmas last year… maybe get a nice top I can interview in.

With only 2 weeks to find something, I need to hit the ground running.

It’s kind of funny, American hair style sites are really outdated. Some of the styles look like they’re from the early 90s. Heck, some of them still show mullets. (Which just confuses me, considering how most people hate mullets.) So, I went to my usual Japanese style and beauty site. Second page of their “Very Short” styles category and I find something I like, in the length I like.

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You can see the original version on Raysa.com

What do you think?

Also, if anyone has any “Eyebrow Shaping For Dummies” suggestions… I’d gladly take it. lol I seem to be physically incapable of keeping my eyebrows nicely groomed.